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Love & Relationships with JK




I had a nice afternoon patio lunch with my friend JK this weekend. She has some stuff going on with someone she really cares about, but who is a bit injured and less experienced. After catching up, I offered to do a reading. This is the cliff’s notes version as we had a pretty long conversation. 

Where you are now: You’re in a learning cycle and taking on new projects. Cups are emotional, so this could also apply to learning in relationships with new people.

What’s next: Pentacles are the material world, and aces are new beginnings. One thing I missed Saturday is that this can also represent manifestation - you are beginning to create the life you want and creating abundance of love, financial security, etc.

Obstacles: You may be limiting yourself due to worry about not meeting your financial goals. You have a picture of the life you want and may be limiting yourself in the romance department for fear of losing progress toward this vision. 

Strengths/resources: Your intuition is your strength, and there are more resources available to you than you’re currently seeing. More information will come to light to help you make the next decisions in your dating life.

New focus/outcomes: You know your stuff, but may be caught up in conventional thinking when it comes to dating and relationships. You don’t have to follow anyone’s rules when it comes to dating and relationships. 

Horseshoe spread dealt upside-down - oops. Deck is Tarot Disassembled.

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